Love universally is an intense feeling of emotional attraction and many people especially in the pop culture find it horrible and unpredictable, and it will break you and make you wish you hadn’t fallen in love in the first place. “Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I didn’t know this either, but love don’t make things nice, it ruins everything. It breaks your heart. It makes things a mess. We aren’t here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts and love the wrong people and die.” this is from the pop culture movie ‘MoonStruck’ and it shows the horrible characteristics that love is and how it is portrayed . So my thesis about love is that, Love is a very powerful thing that can change you in a good way, people just tend to see what’s in front of them and not the bigger picture.
Love is a powerful thing because it attracts are minds as well as our hearts and makes us want something until we have it. “With love’s light wings did I o’erperch these walls;For stony limits cannot hold love out”(Romeo and Juliet). In this quote it shows that love is powerful and in the context of the story Romeo is attracted by Juliet and is compelled by his heart and mind from her beauty and believes that his love cannot even be contained. As well as “I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold, Or all the riches that the East doth hold”(To my dear and loving husband). And this shows the power of love because above all materialistic things that people ‘find’ happiness in she says love is greater than the riches of the east! And in a way she has all the riches of the east and more so she got what she wanted when she fell in love with her husband.
Love can make you struggle with situations that later define who you will become as a person. Here are two quotes to show what I mean. “Her mind only vaguely grasped what he was saying. Her physical being was for the moment predominant. She was not thinking of his words, only drinking in the tones of his voice. She wanted to reach out her hand in the darkness and touch him with the sensitive tips of her fingers upon the face or the lips. She wanted to draw close to him and whisper against his cheek — she did not care what — as she might have done if she had not been a respectable woman¨(The respectable women). To break it down this shows a women, that is struggling to deal with her lust of her husbands friend but, this isn’t the struggling of love that is portrayed but what isn’t said that is the true struggle. She struggles to fight the temptations because she knows her husband wouldn’t want her to do the things she’s thinking and because of the love for her husband she fights and struggles to resist. and “Oh,” she told him, laughingly, after pressing a long, tender kiss upon his lips, “I have overcome everything! you will see. This time I shall be very nice to him”( A respectable women). And with this it is confirmed at the end of the story that after her overcoming her struggling she ultimately formed a more firm love and relationship with her husband. She even trust herself enough to have his friend come back again and kisses her husband harder compared to before where it just says she kissed him. Thus showing my point that through the struggles of love it defined her into who she had become in the end. A “Respectable women”.
Love can and will blind you of the truth if you let it. “I knew nothing more, nothing. I saw a priest, who said: ‘Your mistress?’ and it seemed to me as if he were insulting her”( Was it a dream). With this it’s clear that this guy is blinded by the truth because he thinks the priest is making a joke of his decease girlfriend but in reality priest are very trustworthy people! He didn’t even take the time to realize that and the love was so powerful he was blinded and unaware of the truth that was right in front of him. The other quote to back me up is “it is weight it is weight and it is too heavy to feel good sometimes”(What love isn’t). Now with this you really have to think about it a little more. It states that love is like a weight and the good times can’t be felt because in other words the weight of love blinds one of the things that are right in front of them. This clearly proves my point that because of the powerful amount of toll or weight that it brings to you it will actually blind you and not let you see the bigger picture!
In conclusion love is an unpredictable, yet powerful thing that will alter you as a person whether you like it or not and if you look at the bright side of love you will always be happy as an individual and in a relationship.